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Jerry Wistrom

Jerry Wistrom
Rovezzi's Ristorante Focus Group
Posted on 4/20/2011 by Jerry Wistrom
Categories: Business
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What a great evening!!!
Last night my wife and I spent the evening at a Customer Focus Group at Rovezzi's Ristorante in Sturbridge, MA. We were lucky enough to
be chosen to attend (there were a maximum of 20 people on four different evenings). Chef Chris Rovezzi started the evening by welcoming us and telling us what to expect. We enjoyed a great buffet dinner and then spent an hour discussing his restaurant with him.

I have to tell you that Rovezzi's has been a favorite of ours for years. It is an upscale Italian restaurant in Sturbridge, MA that is SO GOOD that we drive 45 minutes from our home in Windsor CT to get there.

Chef Chris did a great job of keeping the conversation going. Everyone there has been a dedicated Rovezzi's customer for a long time. Some really great ideas were generated by the group. I won't go into detail because I consider those
conversations confidential for Chef Chris.

Here's what really stood out for me, that I can share with you.
It was very clear that Chef Chris cared, not only about his business, but about each of us.
He valued every opinion. He listened, and gave opposing points of view if appropriate.
He understands that his customers are the heart of his business, and he wants us all to be happy (and returning). There were a few ideas that he has already implemented from earlier focus groups (he has run these groups for the past three weeks).
He shared his philosophy about his restaurant and what he wants to create in the world.

What I enjoyed most was watching a great chef developing into a great business owner.

If you're ever near Sturbridge MA, make sure that you drop in at Rovezzi's. The food will be GREAT, and if he's available, try to spend a moment with the Chef. You'll find him to be a wonderful man with a great passion for his food.
You'll be VERY GLAD you visited.
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Jerry Wistrom
Some Success - But Not Enough
Posted on 3/8/2010 by Jerry Wistrom
Categories: ADHD Business
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Well - I found a way to make a lot of progress...
By blocking out time
AND
Setting a 10 minute alarm
The task of going through my open TO DO LIST is now complete!
YEA!
So I really have to store that concept of blocking time and a constant alarm
as a way that currently works for me.

So the task list is now down to 105 items.
Still FAR TOO MANY.
And I know that because I don't even want to look at them.
I started reading them this morning and got bored / tired / overwhelmed / who knows.....

Today I'm going to set aside some time to try to vision how I want this to work.
I know that there are still a ton of tasks, but I dont' want to see them.
The goal is to work from a list of less than 40 tasks.
I'm setting that goal because thats what fits on ONE PAGE of Outlook Task List Printout.

OK...
Now it's off to block out the time on the calendar and start my REAL WORK for the day.
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Jerry Wistrom
One Day - No Progress
Posted on 3/5/2010 by Jerry Wistrom
Categories: ADHD Business
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Happy Friday!
It's amazing to me that I went through Thursday without doing a damn thing on my To Do List.
Actually - it doesn't amaze me at all.
I'm rather used to this.

Quick update is that I spent a little time late on Wednesday handling the task list items,
but I still wouldn't consider it anywhere near done.

Here's what I've learned so far:
Blocking out time is a good idea (I blocked out two hours on Wednesday)
BUT...
It's NOT ENOUGH.
Blocking out the time still allows me to be UNFOCUSED.

NEXT IDEA:
I've got a ONE HOUR BLOCK TODAY that's available for the TO DO LIST.
Here's what I'm going to try.
Block out the hour AND set a timer to go off every five minutes.
Whenever the timer goes off I'll make sure that I'm in the task of CLEANING THE TO DO LIST.
And NOT - DOING things on the TO DO LIST.

I'll report back later how this one goes.
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Jerry Wistrom
Overwhelm - ZERO.... ADD - ONE
Posted on 3/3/2010 by Jerry Wistrom
Categories: ADHD Business
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Well...
Here's the report of what I did during the two hours that I was going to work on my "TO DO LIST".
Ready?
Started with 308 items on "TO DO".
Immediately deleted 4 of them (time had run out and they didn't even apply anymore) - YEA!
Got to the fifth item - BOOK CHICAGO TRIP - ACO Conference.
Did I just acknowledge it and move on????
OH NO!!!!
I had to actually book the trip.
Hotwire / Orbitz - picking flights - picking rental car....
OK - that took over 40 minutes.
Then - I wanted to book the actual conference as well.
Could I just do that???
Oh no...
I had to start screwing around with deciding if I want to become a member - and pay the member rate
or be a guest and pay the guest rate. Then I have to get the documentation together to prove that
I've had the necessary training to become a member....

So - Now I've gone down TWO BUNNY HOLES...
Booking the trip and signing up for the conference.

Did I get back to the "TO DO LIST" then???
Oh no...
The phone rang - old friend... chatted for 25 minutes.
Made an appointment with her to do a consultation at my church.
THEN...
I had to email everyone (because I tried to call them and couldn't reach them) to let them know that she's coming.

Back to the "TO DO LIST" yet????
Oh no....
Now I decide is a good time to chat with my Social Networking Specialist about this blog.
Call her.
We chat.
We decide some things that I have to do...

Now...
I'M HUNGRY!!!!
Go make toast and check on the fire in the insert...
WOW.. That fire looks great!!!!!
I need a picture of that....
Out comes the camera as I snap photos of the wonderful fire in the insert.

Tell me folks...
Does this SCREAM ADD or what???????

Before I forget that all this happened...
I decide to write this blog....

BACK TO THE "TO DO LIST"!!!!!!!!
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Jerry Wistrom
Fixing Overwhelm - Step One
Posted on 3/3/2010 by Jerry Wistrom
Categories: ADHD Business
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Yesterday I told you about OVERWHELM...
Today I try to fix it.

First thing I'd tell someone else to do is:
Let's find ONE THING to clean up.

Choosing WHICH THING to clean up and organize is a challenge as well.
HOWEVER...
I've chosen: MY TO DO LIST.
The damn thing has gotten so big that I can't even look at it.
The sight of it makes me ill....
The current list has over THREE HUNDRED ITEMS.
THREE FREAKIN' HUNDRED.

How did it get this big????
MICROSOFT OUTLOOK - that's how....
Most of these are emails that require me to do something.
I click the little flag on it - it's now a task - I put a category on it (So that I believe at least I have a categorized mess)
and that's how it has grown and grown.

OK...

Here's what I'm willing to do.
I have a couple of hours free this morning.
I'm going to tackle the son of a bitch....
Let's see if I can get this TO DO LIST down to something
that's manageable and real.

I'll report back tomorrow....
Wish me luck...
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